Ask Alexis

Dating after divorce

My answer to a reader's question about dating after divorce, plus a Q&A with couples and sex therapist Kate Engler.

Feb 10 • Alexis Mera Damen

3 simple tips to get your personal essays published

Plus screenshots of my successful submissions.

Nov 19, 2025 • Alexis Mera Damen

I hate the smell of my husband's cologne. How can I tell him without being an asshole?

Welcome to Issue #3 of Ask Alexis.

Sep 9, 2025 • Alexis Mera Damen

How can I better manage my writing time and ideas, and step away to give my brain a rest?

Welcome to Issue #2 of Ask Alexis.

Jul 2, 2025 • Alexis Mera Damen

Is it scary to have your personal essays published?

Introducing my new advice column, Ask Alexis!

May 18, 2025 • Alexis Mera Damen

Welcome to Mera Magazine

Relatable essays, interviews, advice, and more from midlife.

Mar 27, 2025 • Alexis Mera Damen

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